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Over the years I have had quite a few online names and aliases.

Some have stayed with me, some haven't. Therefore, given I was new and well, to be honest, wanting to get my rocks off a little bit I used very explicit and descriptive names like 'tortureslut4use' and things like that.

I actually do cringe to think that was me once. Hindsight is a wonderful thing! I did end up meeting my first dom using a descriptive yahoo handle, and yes with hindsight I'm not sure that was a good thing. From that experience, I'm not sure descriptive names are necessarily the best.

They work for some people but I think there needs to be a bit of subtlety - mine weren't.

A few years ago when I had the opportunity to be a spanking model I had to pick a first name and surname for my character. I picked the name Ellie Roberts. Ellie being the name of the first girl I kissed and Roberts being after one of my favourite actresses. When I was little when I role-played I often picked the bdsm submissive names of my cousins who were older and who I therefore wanted to be!

I have always liked reading a lot and movies and theatre, there are plenty of names to choose from in the media - whether it be because you just like the name or the aspects of the character reflect something you feel about yourself or your submission. A lot of people on the scene do this. There are so many gods and goddesses and other characters to choose from. Perhaps translate a word that means something to you or your dom into another language - I know some people have used Ancilla - which is latin for slave.

Google translator is great for playing around with ideas. I did some research about other ways of choosing names and another suggestion that came up was to use words from your hobbies and pastimes. For example, if you like visiting a country look up the names of its birds or flowers. I'm not gorean or anything like that. I wanted to write something only my Dom would recognise, we'd mentioned the 'this girl' protocol in a casual conversation that weekend and Bdsm submissive names knew he would know it was me and that no one else would.

At that point I wanted the anonymity. I still want relative anonymity but many people know who is behind the scene name in real life and across the waves as well and I'm okay with that. There are quite a lot of people who will only ever introduce themselves as their scene name. Some people have reasons for doing this - privacy, their profession, all manner of things and so this is important to be respected. However, I have never seen any harm in introducing myself at a scene event by my real first name and then 'on fetlife I'm thisgirlsub' etc - if they ask for my online details.

I don't know why, I just find it more personal and less likely to appear egotistical to say my real name rather than to come across right away as a normal person that just bdsm submissive names side that incorporates my kinky facets. Apart from anything else at events I want to meet people who I might also want to share friendship with outside kink so I don't want to sound as though kink is all there is to me right from the first introduction when that is not the case.

I've known people as well who have been renamed by their dominants once the relationship has got serious and committed, sometimes as part of a collaring ceremony, sometimes not. It's another idea worth considering anyway. Every month I'll update you on the latest from Submissive Guide and you'll get first access to new resources, offers and events. So, other ideas for choosing a name :- Using a name that gives you a special memory A few years ago when I had the opportunity to be a spanking model I had to pick a first name and surname for my character.

Using the name of a fictional character I have always liked reading a lot and movies and theatre, there are plenty of names to choose from in the media - whether it be because you just like the name or the aspects of the character reflect something you feel about yourself or your submission. Using a name from myth and legend A lot of people on the scene do this. Use other languages Perhaps translate a word that means something to you or your dom into another language - I know some people have used Ancilla - which is latin for slave. Use your hobbies and interests I did some research about other ways of choosing names and another suggestion that came up was to use words from your hobbies and pastimes.

Why I chose 'this girl' I'm not gorean or anything like that. Introducing yourself There are quite a lot of people who will only ever introduce themselves as their scene name.

Re-naming I've known people as well who have been renamed by their dominants once the relationship has got serious and committed, sometimes as part of a collaring ceremony, sometimes not. Please feel free to share your thoughts and other suggestions on this topic :. Keep us running with your support. SubguidePlus for our latest tips, tutorials and submissive tools! Lessons in Submissive Speech. Find more related content. Advertise on Submissive Guide.

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