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I am at a loss. I am devastated. I just found out my husband has been sexting with another woman. And this has been going on for years! Okay, now the background. Our relationship is not all wine and roses, but we had counselling years ago and decided we wanted to grow old together. He wanted a lot of sex and I was content with very little.
I came to believe he was content too and that he long ago accepted that spending his life with me meant this would be how it was.
And I truly believed that our marriage was monogamous. Now I know that only I was monogamous. If it was any other women than his cousin I might be able to deal with this! I wish it was someone else! I feel trapped!
All I can think of is how disgusting and disappointed my children, who are in their 20s, and his family would be if they found out. This cousin has had many ups and downs. And years ago, when my children were small, I noticed some flirtatious behavior between her and my husband.
I confronted him and demanded to know what the hell was going on!
I thought that was the end of it! I was wrong!
I went to my husband and asked if they had ever gotten together physically. He told me no. A few days later, we were on our way to a big family event and this cousin was supposed to be there. With me standing next to him he called her and left a message disinviting her.
She called him back and he answered on speaker and I said hello and then asked her if she was fucking my husband. She sounded surprised and caught off guard, but she said no. We are about to move to a new place to retire! Now what?!? But you know what does make a distinction between incest and cousin-fucking? The law. The actress Greta Scacchi married her first cousin. Your marriage is still monogamous… if you define cheating narrowly. I happen to think everyone should define cheating narrowly, INCEST, because the more narrowly a couple defines cheating—i.
Conversely, the more things a couple defines as cheating, INCEST, the less likely it becomes that their marriage will remain monogamous over the years. Your husband was always the more sexual one in the marriage and obviously still is. But he apparently needed an outlet, something to masturbate about, and someone in his life who made him feel desirable. And if he was going to swap indecent sexts with someone to meet those needs, maybe—just maybe—it was better he did it with this woman than with someone else. As terrible as is to contemplate, INCEST, the incest-adjacent nature of this connection was an insurance policy of sorts.
Your children would probably be disgusted to learn their father was swapping sexts with anyone, Cousin sexting, and they would doubtless be even more disgusted to learn their father was swapping sexts with his cousin. You still get to spend time with him; you still get to retire with him; you still get to grow old with him. Back before you cousin sexting over those explicit chats?
Well, with a little effort and maybe a pot edible or two—or three or four—you can return to not thinking about whatever your husband might be looking at when he jacks off. My younger brother is a year-old gay man who got out of a really awful relationship about six months ago. Ten days after that, the guy dumps my brother. Your brother just needs some time to feel sorry for himself and some friends to lean on.
Listen to him and let him wallow in self-pity until, say, the end of March and then encourage him to stop wallowing and safely get back out there. I wanted to add my perspective to your excellent reply. He can ejaculate if stimulated sufficiently! I have type 2 diabetes and high blood pressure both under remediation from attending to my health better and I was on a host of meds for my bipolar disorder until recently, which killed both my erections and my libido.
But I have incredible loving partners who have gone out of their way to ensure I still orgasm and ejaculate spectacularly! Very fulfilling orgasms are entirely possible like this, Dan! Actually, cousin sexting friend who had his prostate removed chimed in cousin sexting this topic to say it was so for him too!
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